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You\u2019ll learn how to replace heated conflicts with productive collaboration, whether you\u2019re dealing with a restless child, a grumpy coworker, or your most intimate partner.<\/p>\n<p>Jerry combines his professional expertise with scientifically-validated communication tools, the research of other professionals, and his many years of personal experience to deliver a practical and humorous guide.<\/p>\n<p>With guided questions and plenty of opportunities to reflect in your own journal, you\u2019ll get to practice using your new tools and techniques for healthier communication before applying them in your real-life interactions.<\/p>\n<p>Humans are meant to work together, and it\u2019s a lot more fun when we do.<\/p>\n<p><b>Jerry Manney<\/b> has counseled thousands of individuals and families over the past thirty-five years. He has written numerous articles on family distress, substance abuse, and communicating more effectively. 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